Retired elderly psychological transition
Wang Bobo is 76 years old and retired from cadres.
I am healthy when I retire, but I can prevent colds because I feel less contact with people. I often stay at home and don’t want to move around.
Three months after retiring, Wang Bobo began to feel his legs weak and stubbornly believed that weakness in his legs was a sign of serious illness.
As a result, Wang Bobo became the hospital’s long-term illness, and gradually gradually increased to the extent that he needed someone to feed him, dress, and get on the bed.
Old people who are retired, if they can’t adapt to a new life as soon as possible, passively stress, it is very likely that they will be surrounded by danger because of “psychological cold.”
Wang Bobo is a situation in which the retirement of “soft landing” failed.
The retirement period of the elderly is at the maturity of the transition, and the juniors are no longer dependent on themselves as they used to.
This not only brings the family’s empty nest, but also the feeling of loneliness and loss.
Modern society is changing with each passing day. The speed of knowledge update of the elderly is no less than that of young people. The channels for obtaining information are relatively narrow. At the same time, the concept of “self-aging” is strengthened, and it is easy to feel that the body function is declining.
To face a new social environment, integrate new social interactions, and reposition the social roles that have long been used to, so retirement is also called another major turning point in people’s lives.
To truly achieve a safe “landing”, it will inevitably require a certain psychological preparation and adjustment time.
In fact, retirement does not mean the end of a temporary life, but can be seen as the beginning of another wonderful life.
The children left their own space to give them a free life. In the days when they regain their freedom to control their lives, they will locate new life points, find interest, and avoid excessive attention to their old and weak in the value-added of self-worth.Provide a powerful buffer for a smooth “soft landing” after retirement.